Comedic character actor Diedrich Bader has had memorable roles in everything from the Mike Judge comedy Office Space to the seminal 1990s sitcom The Drew Carey Show, on which he played Drew's dim-witted friend Oswald Lee Harvey. Since then, he's made regular appearances in movies and on TV, and carved out a respectable filmography in voice acting alone.
As a working actor, Bader has dealt with his fair share of rejection and frustration. He channels those experiences into his gardening. Bader explains,
I like gardening because it's both practical and a mind palace… I found in my life that there's a lot of rejection. I get rejected far more than I get accepted. You know, an actor's life. For a long time, I took those rejections far too seriously. It was too impactful in my life. I would get bitter, I would drink about it, I would ruminate on them, and I wouldn't let them go. And I find that in the garden, if I get a rejection, which happens all the time, I sit in the garden and I allow myself to really be upset about it and just think it over.
One of the things I was trying to do before, which was wrong, was push it away. I've learned that anytime you push something away, it just gets stronger, and it always stays in front of you. You can't push things to the side. You're just pushing it ahead of you and eventually you're going to have to go through it. So just go through it when you're there and go, "Damn, I didn't get it."
So, I'll sit there and look at the garden, and before I know it, there's something that I need to do. I'll get up and I'll start doing it. Then about a half hour, 40 minutes later, I forgot all about the rejection.
Today, Bader devotes his Instagram account to sharing photos of his flowers.